CareSectorWatch

Choosing a care home

A rating and a date tell you what inspectors found; a visit tells you the rest — whether it feels warm, safe and right for someone you love. This is a plain-English guide to what to check before you go, what to look for on the day, and the questions worth asking, with a checklist you can print and take with you.

This helps you weigh things up for yourself. It is not a recommendation of any home, and it does not decide what care someone needs — the council’s free needs assessment does that.

Before you visit

Do a little homework first, so the visit is time well spent:

The visit checklist

Take this with you. There are no right answers — it is a way to notice the things that matter and to remember to ask. Print it, and use one copy per home so you can compare afterwards.

First impressions

  • Is it warm, clean and free of unpleasant smells?
  • How are you greeted — and how do staff speak to residents?
  • Do residents seem relaxed, occupied and comfortable?
  • Is it homely, or does it feel institutional?

Staff and care

  • How many staff are on, day and night — and do they know residents by name?
  • Is there a registered nurse on site (for a nursing home)?
  • How quickly are call bells answered?
  • How do they support someone with the specific needs your relative has?
  • How much do staff change — is there a lot of turnover or agency cover?

Daily life

  • What is the food like — is there choice, and can you see a menu?
  • What activities and outings happen, and did you see any today?
  • Can residents keep their own routine, get up and go to bed when they like?
  • Can they bring their own furniture and personalise their room?
  • Are visitors welcome any time, and is there somewhere private to sit?

Health and safety

  • How is medication managed and recorded?
  • How do residents see a GP, dentist or district nurse?
  • What happens in an emergency, or if someone's health changes?
  • How do they keep people safe without being restrictive?

Money and the contract

  • What is the weekly fee, and exactly what does it include?
  • What costs extra — hairdressing, outings, chiropody, escorts to appointments?
  • How much notice is needed to leave, and what is the refund policy?
  • How often, and by how much, have fees risen recently?
  • What happens if savings run low and council funding is needed later?

When things aren't right

  • How do they handle complaints, and can you see the policy?
  • How would they keep you informed if your relative was unwell or unhappy?
  • Ask to speak to a current resident or a relative if you can.

Your gut

  • Could you picture your relative living here, and being happy?
  • Did staff seem to genuinely like the people they care for?
  • What is your instinct telling you as you leave?

Warning signs

None of these alone is proof of a problem, but together they warrant a closer look:

Your rights, and who to contact

Where this guidance comes from

General information to help you choose, not advice about any individual or a recommendation of any home. What care a person needs is decided by the council’s assessment and their own clinicians. Find local care homes →